Menstruation is a natural biological process of expelling impurities on a monthly terms

The lying soul of mine gives this feeling to pen down some important thoughts pour in my subconsciousness

It gives the feeling of adulthood,matureness and makes one bold and beautiful ,restored to youthfulness moreover plays vital role in bringing the new life to this world.Athough its a painful process which evokes -:angst,agitation, moodswings, cramps and many more.

It is considered to be a taboo#forbidden#prohibited in many parts of the country where women are treated impure during this god gifted cycle, therefore proscribed to enter in religious activity, rituals,force to live in isolation,restriction on touch. Society at large should abandon these old customs from their confined mind by embracing, accepting,honouring this so called taboo with wide open mind.

It is not a ”Taboo”, its a ‘Mark’ of Womanhood thus altogether join our hands and make it free from the marked impression of Tabu.

‘ Blink of eyes ‘ can waive off the time and abruptly brings you in your 40s .Approaching 40 is like a nightmare for me when I was in my late 30sssss, However moving with pandemic has detoxicate my mind and body with pure and positive thoughts which help me in accepting ‘this’fact of mine and reciprocate my thoughts and believes.

Here is me in my 40ss, just 1 months away, made me bit scary and make a mark with negative feelings:-started loosing hope , confidence was at my feet , regression of haven’t been a successful being ,Anxiety and unhappiness always pinch my sleep which precipitate insomnia, nevertheless as the time passes I started believing in myself and assured to make more out of me . Since age is just a number which is taking such a beautiful inflection in my life ,saying to me that I am not 40 but I am just 18 with 22 years of experience in different phase of life wherein I acted as a adorable daughter,reliable wife and caring mother.

Now ,it’s ‘me’ the carefree and friendly Who doesn’t call ‘Mid life’as a crisis,Who ask herself to take me at ‘Face value’ ,Who don’t justify the age ,Who believes in whenever and wherever you are be ‘Heart to Heart with the parents’ hence next 40 years of mine wanna live independently carrying small wishes to come true like -:sitting lone in a Cafe holding the cappuccino with my book of read,Traveling ,devoting time for social service and supporting small businesses.

Here are some glimpse

Therefore life is so beautiful, so enjoy each and every moment.

Eventually ending this blog by experiencing positive vibes of life in each phase because ‘life is one’ and hoping to have more wonderful years of the same ahead.

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Society of hypocrits ,diplomats ,cold blood and people with distinctive identities ,believes in the status of indivisual can be judged by their earning sources, by the work and the back up that he or she carries .Trying to instill this thought process into various minds, further resonate the notion of deterioration and incapcitated in an indivisual, who believes in work for self satisfaction.

Highly influenced minds by the society are being made to feel forced to do something above expectations under the environment not compatible to do so.

‘Live life on its own terms’ followed by humans to drive their life ,However critics always their to bear it off .One Negative thoughts give rise to countless negative thoughts on the condition if someone premeditatedly impregnated the same,eventually drag the mind to think ” good for nothing”-the notion started awakening and forcing not to uplift the selfesteem.

These are facts of life, doesn’t required reason to justify.

Pandemic is Wandering around our lives hence everyone wants to lift this veil of darkness and step out of it,so we did.

We three mid age women moved out of our home to enjoy the solitude which every women must deserve , therefore we decided to fly to the land of Beaches ,Sea and Churches .

The day I step on the land of goa I felt the sondhi fragrance of wet soil drawing my senses towards it .Standing on a sea side ,hearing the sound of evening breeze blowing through my hair made my evening in peace moreover sun setting in the twilight leaving the kesari color on my cheeks like a good bye kiss ,the moment touched my soul and want to be captured in my memories forever .

The night on the beach seemingly felt like sea was wearing the blanket of stars ,this eye catching view bridle the moment .

Night clubs with loud music,drinks,and ambience curbing me not to leave the place and dance whole night. People were humming on us like a honey bee yet the nectar like me can’t be captured easily .

Lying on the beach side in peace and the waves was touching my feet as if taking my blessings. In addition to this sun was getting naughty and it decided to burnt me till the time i was not hidden.

Couldnt resist of doing shopping which is delicate part of mine.Floral dresses,Beach wear and Accessories on a resonable rate was compelling me to fill the basket.

Overall experience was life time experience for me .

Decided and planned to go on a excursion to ‘Heart of India’. Beauty of India, Habitat of Tigers, State of forest , Home of Pandavs and Touch of nature belongs to it.

Loaded the car weighing 100 to 120 kg. Set the engine into auto mode and speed at 100km/hr ,hoping everyone comfortable with the drive.

10 am we initiated our journey and ended our drive around 4 to 4 30pm at my first halt. Firstly we reached the historic city of India, city of Laxmi bai called Jhansi ,it is located on the border of MP and UP.The Jhansi fort is renowned for its lady Manikarnika, other name of jhansi ki rani though it’s a ruined fort established since 1613 however the location and surroundings are breathtaking and history attached to this make it a remarkable monument and tourist attraction.

Next day again we started our journey at 10 a m with a flawless drive on Highways and speed at 100km /hr. Experienced Enroute the river Betwa and Kalpi joins Yamuna to meet mahasagar ,are surrounded by hills, forest, streams flowing through the steep ghatis, jungle trails and waving farms of mustard, wheat, rice allowing the nature to breathe openly . Long trails of even roads made our journey more relaxed and comfortable.

Finally at 4 30pm we reached our destination but next day early morning again we have to start for the jungle ride to satpura forest tiger reserve. The jungle of Satpura scattered around 1500sqkm through out the central India enclosed by Satpura hills. Drive of 3 to 4 hrs was very adventurous, excited and full of enthusiasm ingrhalt us into a Satpura Tiger reserve, located in the mouth of Denwa river with crystal clear water ,in addition to this the O2 level is at peak and pollution level is zero, we were in no mask zone to inhale the pure air. Took the steamer and cross the river to hire gypsy for safari. The gypsy ride through out the jungle was like a roller coaster to us .Entering through the dark bushes where the brightness of sunshine sieve- in between the trees and wandering through the branches of fine wood sagun trees.Amid safari we came across many spider web, ghost trees, almond trees ,tendu leave trees, mahua trees and cuddoplant almond trees (chironji). Ghost trees was an eye catcher, flattered it’s white colour branches as if telling not to harm or cut.Trees are mostly common with the trunks resemble to crocodile and cheetah skin, standing tall like a protector of the jungle. Eventually ride came to an end with a wonderful sight of ‘herd of deers’ standing to protect themselves from the wild dogs.

After 2 hour of adventurous ride our day ended with the Bonfire, listening melodious music- sitting beside the river in a mild chilled weather,midst of all this the sound of water hitting our ears like taal of beena .Must say jungle is the best place to escape from Covid 19

While returning back we saw chambal ghatis which was our Enroute attraction. These ghatis is renowned ghatis of India for most popular dacoit Phulan Devi. It’s bright yellow colour tillas in the middle of chambal river, where people residing depict the serenity phase of the lives .

Recommend to visit once amid nature and greenery-Madhya Pradesh.

Friendship is a beautiful poem in the journey of life. The lines depict trustworthiness, love, entertainment, happiness and relaxant make this word more pure and real.

The poem can beautifully written, expressed and one instinct can easily picturise the wordings of poem likewise friendship is also very well expressed, praiseworthy and easily comprehend ,comparatively to other relations. Friends are never ending chapter of life. Sorrow, happiness and crisis are accompanied by the same.

FRIENDS-friends -remain -in -endless- drive of relations .

However it is hidden somewhere in the core due to business and envy, part this relation from ones life

Flash back -School’s or college days were very much relaxed, calm with no worries of future and pals are like right hand, besties of emotions and like road which never ends consoling not to leave in the midstream of life. Eating, playing and laughing together took a valuable space in this phase of life and promising to share the same by the besties forever.

Nowadays 9 to 5 kind of job wiped away the name ‘friend’ from the Daily Schedule moreover everyone is running with the same pace as if the time get slip out from the fist and leaving all of them behind . Calling and inviting friends for dinner and reciprocate the same become an obligation pretending as an investment due to which friend and ship is splitting.

Laughing, sharing, listening ,partying ,loving and helping needs a word friend or else it may get hide somewhere in the room of darkness

“Save this investment for the future” and take out some time to redeem otherwise it get dissipate.

The beauty never ends in the depth of the sea, in the twilight , in the mass of hills and valleys, in the procession of stars twinkling in the moonlight and in the dawn light of sunshine .

The land with ‘is’ surrounded by Indian Ocean and sun setting in the twilight adding glimpse of vibrant colour to the sea. The cool breeze by the beach side rejuvenate my breathe and waves sounds like a slow music to my ears sitting in the moonlight.

Kendy-Place of heaven:My experience to this place filled with speech of words. It is the small hills station amidst the mountain ranges and prominent for its scenic beauty. Greenery and nature embracing with both hands and pulling my soul towards ,the night filled with clear sky wrapping the blanket of countless stars hence curb the moment to stay forever .

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Nuwraeliya-Passing through this side took my breathe away. Green covered mountain ,v shaped valleys, stream of rivers flowing , sun kissing mountains, tea garden put on the blanket of green leaves ,wipes off the drenched from the body.

Ramboda Falls-Its an eye catching view gives the refreshing vibes when water pouring from the mountain like a milky fall making the breeze cool with the droplets of water .

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Temples-Hindu temple of Srilanka depict the history of India where sita was kidnapped by the demon ravana. Sri hanuman rescued the sita from the trap of ravana, leaving the foot imprint in this place of worship. Sri bhakt temple is a hanuman temple which is located amid the nature surrounded by meadows, landscape and peace. To reach the temple one has to follow 100 to 150 stairs.

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Dutch fort -Dutch fort situated long back and made up of granite stone. Best place to take a day off in the restro on the road side facing the beach, serves yummylicious delicacies with a romantic dining follow with slow melodious music eventually brings my journey to stop.

Shopping basket-Models, mask, gems are authentic hand made piece of wood and stones with natural colour renowned for their uniqueness and zodiac. Country specialised in beautiful, cut, shaped and moulded gems can add value to the jewel of necklace,rings and earrings moreover expertise in manufacturing porcelain crockery Noritake .Tea leaves and spices are aromatic can be added to the basket.

Lastly, my travel coach is a very impressive personality, kind hearted man with smiling face made my journey more joyful and relaxed. Cleanliness, peace, friendly environment and serene people make this country more exclusive and exotic thus worth one visit.

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